My First Interview

The shock jock of science interviews me about my podcast. Hear me try and work out my beliefs about sex and love from a feminist framework to a scientific one. I also talk about why I began the podcast, avoiding STD’s, and the supernatural.

He tells me I am a sexual anthropologist which I quite like and couldn’t agree more.

So check it out at:

Episode called: Sexy, Sextacular, Sex: Mia from “I Want Your Sex” Podcast
Date: 5/7/08

Interview begins at 30:41 after the industrial goth music.


Adult Alternative

One hit wonders, ejaculation shame, cupid slave boys, Mr. Belvedere and stereotypes of male fantasies.

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I just checked my stats and am blown away by the number of listeners. So tell me what do you like, don’t like, what to you want to hear more/less of, topics to cover, etc. Do you attend sex parties? Would you want to? What are your thoughts on sex and sexuality?

Please email me at miaontop at gmail dot com.

And if you don’t send an email, that’s cool. Thanks for listening. I know you are liking it as there are the same amount of listeners per episode.

Episode #4 should be up soon. Getting a new mic so you can hear me better.



Wanna talk about sex, intimacy and the internet?

I have participated in survey like this before and was surprised about how much I learned about myself. This survey come via a friend and is not some fake email thing that makes promises of checks in the mail in eight weeks. It’s legit. I highly recommend taking part. xxmia


Are you interested in participating in a research study about women’s perspectives and experiences with casual sex or “hooking up”?

You may be eligible to participate in the study if:

-You are female
-You reside in the United States
-Are not transgender (any stage)
-You are 18 years of age or older
-You are able to read and write English
-You have used at least one Internet website in the past year to meet your casual sexual partners

Survey respondents are eligible to enter into a random drawing to win a $100 gift certificate. All answers are completely confidential but an email address is required for the drawing. Your email address will never be given or sold to a third party.

I am a doctoral student at the University of California, San Francisco. I am conducting research on women’s experiences using the Internet to meet partners for the specific purpose of “hooking up”. I am interested in women’s perspectives and experiences with these types of encounters and matters of sex and intimacy in general. The survey will take anywhere between 10-20 minutes depending upon the length of your responses.

If you wish to participate, or would like to learn more about this study, please visit the survey website:

You can read more about the research study, the survey and the drawing on the website.

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Exhibitionism + Voyeurism

The sex pit, canopy beds, and getting my rocks off with Gabriella.

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Secret Garden

Menage et tois bartending, a one dollar bill and a wolf tattoo introduce the cast of characters.

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Chocolate Legs

My first podcast, about my first sex party. Chocolate legs, a raccoon jock strap, and the squeaker.

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Searching for the best in sex

I have had repeated interactions with sex partners – both men and women – that made me understand that others mostly thought of sex only in terms of getting off. Whereas, I am always looking to explore fantasies, play with power dynamics, and restrainment. I love to find ways to challenge and express myself with partners.

So who or what can meet this challenge? Once I exhausted Nerve,, Craigslist and the like, I turned to sex parties.

I live in a major metropolitan city. There have to be amazing, kinky, erotic places where one can explore and indulge in sexual fantasies, right?

I begin exploring sex parties in earnest.

I know a party is what you make of it, so I attend all parties, ranging in price, type, and exclusivity. I go to parties that are free and those that cost $500 with quarterly membership dues. I attend parties that are for women only, couples only, swingers, those into BDSM and fetish. I even include the sex parties that do not want to be labeled as sex parties. And I attend each of these parties more than once - the crowd, location, and themes often change.

So where will I find a place, person, or party to fulfill me? The podcast is my research diary. You’re with me as I find out.I want your sex.