So who or what can meet this challenge? Once I exhausted Nerve, Match.com, Craigslist and the like, I turned to sex parties.

I live in a major metropolitan city. There have to be amazing, kinky, erotic places where one can explore and indulge in sexual fantasies, right?

I begin exploring sex parties in earnest.

I know a party is what you make of it, so I attend all parties, ranging in price, type, and exclusivity. I go to parties that are free and those that cost $500 with quarterly membership dues. I attend parties that are for women only, couples only, swingers, those into BDSM and fetish. I even include the sex parties that do not want to be labeled as sex parties. And I attend each of these parties more than once - the crowd, location, and themes often change.

So where will I find a place, person, or party to fulfill me? The podcast is my research diary. You’re with me as I find out.